Friday, August 20, 2010

BJ's New Skill

J found a new skill:  "I love sucking my toe, Mommy!"


Doesn't this look so funny? He's so flexible.  Too bad we don't all stay this way when we get older... Oh wait, I spoke too soon. I just tried reaching my toe and got it. Haha!  [You think I'm joking, don't you?  People who know the real me know that I really did try to reach my toe ;-)]


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Thursday, August 19, 2010

Religion

HJ and I are so torn about what to do... While we both believe it is important for BJ to go to church, we don't know where.  You see, I was raised going to Sunday School at a buddhist church.  HJ, on the other hand, was raised going to a Christian church every Sunday.  Not to brag, but I believe that HJ and I have grown up to be good citizens of our community (LOL), and I think going to church every Sunday has helped us to become better human beings.  I would like BJ to have a solid level of integrity and values, and this would help give him a solid foundation.

This isn't meant to be a debate about what's better:  Christianity or Buddhism, because I don't believe that this is the place for that, and I am not trying to offend anyone.  I guess I'm just rambling because BJ is getting older and it's getting harder to say, "We'll worry about it later", because later is coming soon.  Since HJ and I started dating and I started thinking about our future together, I always knew this was going to be a problem, and I always had that "We'll worry about it later" mentality.  Now that "later" is here, I STILL don't know what to do. :-/

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

BJ has 100 Followers and more feeding escapades

Wow, thank you to everyone for following my blog... BJ has 100 followers!!!  I am very excited, and can't wait to share the news with HJ!  [I told HJ I wanted to buy myself a present when I reach 100 followers, but I think I'll save the money towards our future house, whenever that may be. :-)]

So you may have read about our feeding escapades.  This afternoon, I got the WONDERFUL opportunity to change BJ's doodie diaper after his first human food feeding of peas and rice.  Why didn't any of you warn me that BJ's doodie would smell the way it did??? It was the STINKIEST thing I have ever smelled in my life.  I nearly fainted.  Shame on you readers for not warning me!  Seriously.  And now that we'll be introducing more foods into BJ's diet, I imagine it can only get worse.  *Sigh* Who knew I would miss the days of smelling BJ's 'just-born doodies'.

And why do I always end up talking about doodie on this blog? lol...

I was a little embarrassed by the mess I made when feeding BJ today but I'll show it to you.  BJ thinks he's sucking on a bottle when I feed him with a spoon and squirts food all over the place. If any of you out there have any tips for feeding babies without being messy, please share!

Mommy needs to learn how to feed me without being messy!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Eating Peas!

BJ ate peas for the first time today! His first real HUMAN FOOD (aside from rice cereal)!




And he did not like it. He made the most sour face ever and held the peas in his mouth for a long time before he swallowed.


In fact, he disliked it so much that after eating a spoonful of peas, he scarfed down spoonfuls of rice cereal to erase the taste.

But mommy and daddy had lots of fun feeding him and taking pictures.  :-)





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Thursday, August 12, 2010

BJ's First Day at the Sitter

Because HJ was having a difficult time feeding BJ, he and I were both nervous about today.  Today was the first day we could take BJ to the sitter, "Aunty K".  After interviewing three babysitters, HJ and I found that Aunty K was a nice fit for us and BJ because (1) she lives right around the corner (2) she is state certified with PATCH (3) she is extremely nice, and (4) she seems well organized and flexible.  I'm so happy we found a great sitter, because the concept of dropping off my child with a stranger scares me quite a bit.... but I trust Aunty K and her wonderful ohana (family).  HJ was so nervous that he was up since 5am pacing around the living room until it was time for us to drop BJ off, while BJ and I slept in until 6:15. Haha!  (Side note: I can't imagine what a nervous wreck HJ will be on BJ's first day of kindergarten.)

Anyway, I stayed home today in case Aunty K called to say she couldn't feed him... but I didn't get a call!  When I went to pick up BJ at 4, he was taking a nap on a pillow and looked so peaceful. Aunty K said he ate from the bottle and barely cried.  He even slept without being rocked.  I was amazed and shocked that he was so good, and I hope he is like that all the time.  I was so proud of him.  He was so happy he didn't want to leave:

Mommy, I'm mad at you for taking me away from Aunty K
(Okay... actually, I think he looks mad because I woke him up from his nap.)

And now, I have to stop blogging to go and grade some papers.  I'm finding it more difficult than before to keep up with grading assignments since I can't really start until after BJ is asleep.  Lucky thing tomorrow is ALOHA FRIDAY!  It's Aloha Friday... No work 'til Monday.... Weeeee.  Aloha and welcome to all new followers!  :-)


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Monday, August 9, 2010

5 months old?????

Jacob makes 5 months today!  HJ and I were putting together BJ's photo album and we were looking through BJ's pictures from when he was first born.  It's weird.  I thought that BJ didn't change that much from when he was born, but he has actually changed a lot.  I don't even recognize the baby in BJ anymore.  Today's picture day for my blog... look at how he's changed:

BJ's first day on Earth
BJ Month 1
















Jacob Month 1



BJ Month 2

BJ Month 3


BJ Month 4

























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Sunday, August 8, 2010

BJ's Babysitter and a 20lb Rice Bag

This coming Thursday will be BJ's first day at the babysitter!  I'm hoping, hoping, hoping pleading with the milk gods that BJ will be able to drink from the bottle.  Otherwise, I honestly won't know what to do.  A book that HJ and I are reading says we were supposed to start feeding BJ the bottle two weeks before I went back to work.  Woops... that didn't happen.  Tomorrow, we're going to try feeding him the bottle the whole day even though I'll be home.  If that doesn't work, UGH, I won't know what our next steps will be because I am seriously running out of ideas.  People on the Full Time Moms forum help keep me sane but nothing is working.

I really hope the sitter ("Aunty K") works out because she is so nice!  Aunty K will be watching BJ from Mondays - Thursdays, and my mom will be watching him on Fridays.  My mom's been having practice watching BJ by herself.  In fact, she helped me by watching him today while I went to set up the computers in my classroom.


Funny, though.  I guess you have to get used to holding a near-20 pound baby.  When I went back to her house to pick up BJ, she kept complaining about how her arms and shoulders hurt.  I guess my arms are just used to BJ's weight since I was able to get accustomed to his weight gradually.  We Hawaii people compare babies to various rice bag sizes.  BJ is almost as heavy as a BIG 20 pound rice bag:


Some of you savvy bloggers may have noticed that this is a picture of a 10 lb rice bag. That was all I could find when doing a google images search. Hahaha.




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Friday, August 6, 2010

Full Time Moms Message Board [[[REVIEW]]]


It's Friday, August 6, 2010 and I just finished my first week back at work since having BJ.  Phew, I am tired.  Though staying at home with BJ wasn't easy, being at work is pretty difficult too.
  • First, I wake up earlier (even earlier than I used to wake up for work) so that I can pack everything in bags and feed BJ before I leave for school.  
  • Then, I see 150 students for 6 hours in a classroom where the AC is broken... keep in mind we're in Hawaii and it's the middle of August.  
  • After staying after school for at least 2 hours, I go home to take care of BJ, give him a bath, and hang out with the family.  
  • By the end of the evening, I am so tired that I end up falling asleep by 9:30. 
 I don't know what I'm going to do once I start assigning homework and have to actually do some grading.  (I'm sure my students would be happier if I just stopped assigning homework all together, though I don't think that would go over well with the principal and parents. Haha.)  I'm sure it'll get easier but it's pretty tough right now.


In other news, you may remember that BJ wasn't eating much.  Things have slightly improved and he actually tries to drink the formula, though he still outright refuses expressed breast milk.  At first, I thought about giving up breast milk all together because he just didn't like the pumped version and I couldn't leave work just to feed him.  However, I'm getting support from some great mothers on a message board website that I discovered recently. 

It's called "Full Time Moms", and it's a great site where you can go to participate in discussions about fertility, pregnancy, children, parenting, current events, and other related topics.  Whether you are trying to conceive or adopt, are pregnant, or a mommy looking for advice, there's all kinds of great information and discussions.  I've been getting great advice from moms about their experiences with breast feeding and frozen milk, and have tried various things to help BJ drink more milk.  Though I haven't quite found the right answer yet, I know I will because of the great support I have from the mommies on this discussion forum.  If you are interested in checking out the forum, go to http://www.fulltimemomsforum.com.  It's absolutely free and there is lots of great information.  I truly recommend it. :-) <3 Aloha for now~




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Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Back to Work - BJ and Milk

BJ's sad that mommy is working now. :-/  He doesn't eat as much when he is home with his daddy. When BJ was at home with me, he would eat every two hours, but with HJ, he didn't eat between the hours of 7:00 and 1:30. I think he misses me.  A part of me feels like I should be happy that he misses me, but I don't. I rather he not miss me and just eat!  If BJ keeps this up, I think we're going to have to call the doctor and see what we can do.  Tomorrow, HJ is going to try to cover himself with something I've worn while feeding him.  We'll see how it goes.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

A Sleeping Baby and 5 Month Milestones

Have you ever watched a sleeping baby?  I think it's one of the most peaceful things:


Sometimes, I feel like I could watch him sleep all day.  Of course, he doesn't sleep all day, but I feel like I could just sit there and stare all day long.  It looks so relaxing.  

BJ makes 5 months in 9 days!  I know this is cliche but he's growing up so fast! Look at some of the milestones he has reached:
Practicing his walking



Swimming in the Pool



Practicing his Dance Moves
(Okay, not really, hehe)


And speaking of milestones, I didn't notice when BJ started opening his hands, but I thought it was amazing when I saw it the other day, so I had to take a picture:



I love watching him grow but I can't believe how fast the time has gone by.  Really cliche again. Oh well.  Have a great work week everyone! (I tear as I say work. Ugh.)



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Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Pooped at Work and Being Carried


Today was my second day of work, and although I haven't had students yet, I'm POOPED.  Speaking of pooped, I was pooped quite literally today.  I was changing BJ's diaper in unfamiliar diaper-changing-territory:  My Classroom.  The desks are a little taller than what I'm used to, and as I was pulling his legs up to get the diaper out, I miscalculated and the diaper landed square on my shirt!!!  


Now, this wouldn't have been so bad if I was the only one in the room, but of course I had to do this in front of my co-worker... How embarrassing.  The only thing I could do was laugh about it... HJ sure laughed at me when I told him. :-/  (At this point, if you are wondering if I had an extra shirt, yes I did.)

So anyway, work hasn't been too bad, and BJ helped me grade papers today! Okay, that's a white lie, but maybe one day he'll be able to come help his mommy in the classroom.  In the mean time, we spent the day hanging out with all sorts of people.  He needs to start sucking up to his future teachers now, hehehe.  

What I'm thankful for is that BJ is willing to be carried by anyone.  Many people have made comments to me that not all babies like to be carried by others.  From when BJ was born, HJ and I made a conscious effort to let others carry him because we didn't want him to get completely attached to us.  I think it's paying off, and I am so happy about that.  It's not that I don't enjoy carrying my son, because the times that I do carry him are my favorite time of the day.  I just don't want others to feel they are disliked if he cries in their arms.  Isn't that one of the worst feelings?  When you carry someone's baby and they start to cry?  Everyone likes to be loved. <3



Monday, July 26, 2010

Last Day Before Work

Today is my last day of freedom!   I go back to work tomorrow after about 6 months of time off.  I'm a teacher so I was lucky enough to get this much time off, but I'm still sad about going back. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE teaching and getting to know my students.  It's just that I love to get to know this guy a little bit more:


I'm definitely jealous of all the stay-at-home mothers out there.  Hmm... so what should I do today?  What would you do if you were me?

I'm headed out! See you tomorrow~ :-D


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Sunday, July 25, 2010

First Rice Cereal

Feeding BJ rice cereal is so much fun! He gets really messy...


We're thinking of submitting this picture to Got Milk?  Think he'll get a modeling contract? :-)



Friday, July 23, 2010

Random Asparagus Question

Random Question for the Day:

You know how asparagus makes your pee stinky?  Does asparagus make your breast milk taste funny?


Just a thought....

Thursday, July 22, 2010

4 Month Check Up

Jacob's 4 Month Stats:

Height: 25.75 inches (70 percentile)
Weight: 17 lb. 13.9 oz. (89 percentile)
Head Circumference: 45.1 cm (97 percentile)


In other words, he's healthy, but he's huge. Hahaha.  HJ teases BJ's head circumference because Dr. H said that it's genetic.  As my mom likes to say, Big Head = Big Brain. Hahaha


In other news, BJ ate his first tablespoon of rice cereal today after getting Dr. H's permission.  That was fun!  I'll write about it more later.  For now... I have to go because BJ's grouchy. He had his 4-month shots today and isn't in the greatest of moods. However, he barely cried when the nurse "jabbed" him again. I was impressed!  I think I would've cried longer than him. :-P

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Tips for Traveling with a Baby - Airplane Version

Welcome everyone to my "new" site:  A Maui Mommy!  I have been away from blogging for a long time, partly due to my url not working, and partly due to being on a trip.  HJ, BJ, and I trekked across the United States to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and stopped in Las Vegas on our way back home.  Some of you may be thinking that I am crazy for taking a 4 month old on a trip to Philly, and in some ways, I agree with you.  However, I committed to this trip before I found out I was pregnant and I value the work that this organization does, so I did not want to back down.  (It was a conference for an organization that my school club belongs to, The National Academy Foundation, and I was a presenter.)  Plus, how could I pass up a free trip? Honestly, would you? :-)



Okay, so anyway, HJ and I learned a lot about vacationing with a baby.  I did a lot of research before I left but had a hard time finding information about taking babies on trips.  Therefore, I have decided to write about some of the things I learned on the trip in multiple posts.  This post:  the Airplane version!

1.  Try not to schedule the red-eye flight.  When HJ and I first discussed what would be a good time to fly, we decided that the red-eye was the best time to fly because BJ would be sleeping the whole time.  However, we didn't take into account that everyone else would want to sleep as well.  The plane was pitch black, and the only light that was on was our reading light because BJ can't sleep in the dark.  Plus, because it was so dark, BJ started crying.  We got a lot of evil glares our way because of his cries. Eek. I truly recommend taking day flights so baby's cries get drowned out by everyone else's chatter.

2.  Depending on how old baby is, you're definitely going to want to take distractions with you.  Toys, books, a bottle... whatever works!  Unfortunately for us, BJ refused the bottle the entire trip, so our "must-haves" were a nursing cover and a pillow! :-)

3.  When selecting seats, try as best as you can to take up the whole row.  For me, I tried my best to get a two-seater with HJ.  That didn't always work. To get to Philadelphia, we took a total of four flights... ugh, that was torture.  Anyway, on one of these flights, we had a three-seater because all of the two-seaters were taken.  Luckily, we sat next to a kind, older woman who did not care that I was breast feeding BJ.  I don't know what would have happened if we sat next to a man. Eep.  When HJ and I sat on a two-seater, I sat next to the window and fed away.  That was the easiest and most comfortable!

4.  Changing diapers are not fun; especially doodie diapers.  We were lucky because BJ was small enough to change on the changing table in the airplane bathrooms.  I've heard of others who change their babies on the airplane seats. No matter what, changing diapers is probably the trickiest thing to overcome.

5.  Hawaiian Airlines had lots of room in the back for BJ when he was crying.  We just rocked him to sleep in the back of the plane, and took him back to the seat.  American Airlines wasn't as spacious, but it could be because we had shorter trips on the AA flights.


Okay, that's it for now.  Next posting: Tips for Traveling with a Baby - Breastfeeding Version. :-)

Monday, July 19, 2010

I'm back from vacation!

Phew. 10 days away from the internet is rather difficult. Haha. I'll be back as soon as I can figure out what's wrong with my blog! (I purchased a new domain from Google and can't figure out how to connect that blog to this url. Gah.)

Ideas on how to survive vacationing with a baby coming soon!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

My Blog Site's Changing

This blog is in for a change. I've been debating the idea for a while and I have finally made a decision.  I am changing domain names. Don't worry (if you are worried, lol.) It won't really affect you as a reader because I'm going to link it so you automatically jump to my new url... but it'll be a brand new name and I'm excited! A BIG CHANGE.  Almost as big a change as BJ has made over the past (almost) 4 months!









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Congratulations Kari!! You won the $50 Safeway Gift Card. I will be contacting you shortly and you will have 48 hours to respond before a new winner is chosen.  A big THANK YOU to Safeway for sponsoring my first giveaway!! 


BJ's happy she won: